Tuesday, September 16, 2008

Evaluating Changes in Our Lives

Photographs (left to right): Ultrasound of Maya (one month before birth), Maya (one day old), Maya (five months old).

My wife and I have noticed many changes in our daughter, Maya, over the past 5 months. Babies seem to change every day, not only in their appearance, but also in their abilities and mannerisms. I was thinking that we must change a lot more as babies, and less and less as we get older. However, then I realized that changes are not just physical changes that we can see in our appearance. Changes also occur in our personality, habits, ideas, and thinking. These types of changes are happening all the time. Sometimes they are things that we are trying to change on purpose and other times they seem to change on their own, sometimes without us even realizing it.

As I think about some changes that have happened in my life recently I would like you to do the same and then evaluate whether or not the changes occurring are "moving you in the right direction" (good changes) or "pushing you down a path you'd rather not go" (changes for the worse).

Recently, my life has changed drastically in that I have become a father. This is most definitely a good change, although not always an easy change. I have more responsibilities and less freedom, but I get to watch and guide the growth of a child. My life has also changed and become more busy, and with that comes stress. This is a change that I am not so excited about. I would like to get better at dealing with stress so that I don't become angry with those around me. I am also trying to remember that relationships (people) are more important than "doing things". This is a change I am hoping to make in the way that I think.

What are some changes happening in your life? Are they good changes? What are some changes that you'd like to make in your life? Please write at least 8 sentences on this topic. Remember that other people can read your comments so make sure that you are posting appropriate material.

29 comments:

David said...

THE CHANGES THAT I'M GOING THROUGH ARE THAT I'M DOING MY HOMEWORK NOW.IM COMEING TO SKOOL EVER DAY. I PAY ATTENION IN ALL OF MY CLASES. I GET TO MY CLASES ON TIME. IM NEVER LATE TO MY CLASES.IM STARING TO MAKE ALOT OF FRIENDS. IM NICER TO TEACHERS.IM JUST CHANGEN THE WAY I ACT IN FRONT OF TEACHERS

rey-rey said...

THE CHANGES THAT AM GOING THROUGH
IS THAT AM GOING TO SCHOOL AND NOT
SKIP.AM DOING MY HOMEWORK AND DOING WELL.

lupita said...

well my life has change alot seens i came 2 GRESHAM HIGH because i have 2 do alot of homework and its harder and i have meet new frends that are nice well some of them are funny and its fun hangin out qwith my friends and another thing that changed my life is that i have learned new stuff in math and i can do my homower more easier because i now most of the math stuff

daniel said...

One Of My Changes is School Because I coming to school ever day.Also I'm Doing My Homework ever day and trying to not Skip my class.

vazquez said...

I think that I've changed a lot in my life. The most immportant change in my life is that I have more responsibilities at school and at home. This is my last year in high school and I have to think about college. The other thing that I have to think about is finding a job because I'll need money to buy books. The other immportant change in my life is that i come to school every day and i don't want to miss school because i need to have a good attendance so i can get a schoolarship for college.

(*carolina*) said...

Some changes that im going through are comeing to school, my respansability at home, not being late to class, not skipping with friend, and i thing im doing better in school then like last year. Last year i would skip, not come to school every other day, and not do my H.W now i do the oposite.

pedro said...

The changes that am going through are that I'm going to all my classes.
i been doing all my home work an I'm planing to not skip any of my classes this year.

eduardo resendiz said...

hi my name is eduardo resendiz and the thing that changed my life was when my dad died when i was nine years old then my mom new someone els he is nice he likes my mom and thats what i like about him and the only thing that i want is that to know is that my mom is healthy moving on when my dad died we were destroid because to know that my dad went to work in the night and find him dead in the morning that shock me and my family bacause he wasent doing nothing wrong and he was a awsome dad because when we were stuguling he use to help us and because he love my mom and he was a good dad,now it past allong time and i havent forgoten aboout him i still pray for he's protection not for me for my family because i'll do enithing to protect my family and because i love them.
can you belive that i struggle to go on nowing my dad is not here but i still need to move on.
sense that happened i bin helping and protecting my mom sometimes i help here to wash cloth and to wash dishes and i help her to clean the house and sometimes we go shopping and i help her tochoose the food sometimes we go to play soccer every sunday and thats mostly it

Mr. Enns said...

Steve says:

Hey mr. enns how are you doing. I hope for you this year you get the best class because i'm in youre class. This year I'm going to do good. I don't want to fail all my classes. I want to graduate from GHS and get a good job for the future.

yami yumi becky said...

Well this year i am taking test more seriously as well as well as the rest of my school work. Some of my personal changes are that i think I've matured more and i have long-lasting friendships. I hope I can continue with the changes I have made.
I like my new and improved personality!!!
:)

Emily.Z said...

one of my change is im go to bad early right now, because i dont want to sleep in the class anymore. and i dont spend a lot time on computer anymore. i think i change a lot. im finish homework early. im going through is that listen well in the class. yep. i think thats all i changed. i hope i can keep this well. so i can be a good student!!! hahaha... my mom are will be very happy.~!!!

MANUEL said...

The changes that i am going to go though my life are that i get good grades and do well at school so i can make my dad proud and so i could get a good job. And also i want to play sports at the Gresham High School baseball team because i wanted to play baseball sense i was a little boy and when i going to grow up i wish i could be a baseball player.

yancy said...

My life changed in middle of 8th grade when i stared to reliased that life wasn't a game and stared taking stuff serious like my grades, what i wanna be when i grow up and how i'am gonna do that.
so that about it.

Saidy said...

Hi! Ok so some changes that have recently happened to me were meeting a boy named Jordy. He has changed somethings in my life for example I get along with my mom more, we talk more, Jordy also brought someone out in me. He brought out the real me, because I used to be really shy and and ever since I met him I stopped being shy! Another change in my life was when I first stared going to Gresham High School because I didn't know everyone. I was new to the school and I was kind of shy because I didn't want to be alone and I was scared of what people were going to think about me. Well those are the only changes that i have had in my life so far. I hope to find more and more changes in my life because sometimes they're for the good!

3S3 Cr@ZY said...

Well the changes that Im doin are cuz my mom and my girl are checking on me. Thats the only reason why Im try to do good in school and out side of school. What i would like to change about my life is ummmmm nothing .Oh wait to try to pay attention in class because i get distracted to fast oh and I need to try to stop skipping school. Wait a change that i need to make is to have good attendance, get a job, and try to stay home a little more because i aint at home that much no more.

Unknown said...

people change a lot. they change siezes like me in 1st grade i was a little girl. when i look back i look way bigger then i was. when i was little i use to be be fat. and now i look different.i go though good changes and so do other people. there are some changes that i want there to be like not getting fatter or staying the same. they way i look now and never changes. but there has to be changes thats the way that our body works.

*3SA DR3MER* said...

WELL THE CHANGES THAT IM GOING THROUGH IS DOING MY HOME WORK STAYING OUT OF TROBLE AND JUST TRYING TO BE BETTER THEN I WAS LAST YEAR AND NOW IM A 10TH GRADER SO NOW IM A LINK CREW LEADER NOW so now i have to give good exsamples to the other students we plan the dances and thats rely fun. but like we got new students so thats skool

Unknown said...

The changes that I'm going through is that I'm doing my homework more then I use to, and that I'm going to school and not skipping. I'm also getting better grades then I did when I was in 6th and 7th grade. I also pay attention in all my classes and I'm actually on time and not late to classes. I've also changed by the way i act in front of teachers.

Unknown said...

I want to change by doing my homework and work in school. I want to go to college and stop getting trouble. I want to do everything for my girl veronica that will make her happy and not make her mad. What i want to change in my life is get a good job.

v rizzle said...

Some things that i been noticing are that i been doing better in school this year. i've also noticed that my perants trust me more then last year. what i want to change in my life is get a job and have more fun.

Unknown said...

changes well there are millions of stories any one can say the ones that are noticed are the ones not thinked about. I've have never noticed how i have changed because i change a lot. one second I'm me the next I'm trapped in i cell. good well I'm getting there step by step I'll get there. junior high impacted my life really bad and really good.mastakes meat more than just lunch detentions it leads to who you are and want to be in you life and others.

lesly said...

Well some changes happening in my life are that I am getting lots of homework and that being in 10th grade is not as fun as it looks. I am also helping more at home by cleaning up and helping my sister with homework. Now that I am 15 years old I have more responsibilities and less free time which is not fun. One thing I would change in my life is to have more time to do things that I like to do. All these changes in my life are good because these changes are helping me to become a better person and to be more responsible. Also all these changes have showed me that life can be hard but you always have to make it the best you can.

wendy said...

Starting this school was really had for me because i had forgotten all the work that i had done so far! But my teachers helped me a little bit naw i have harder classes it`s hard for me too keep up with everything thats going on in my life right naw.All this stuff that just poped up that i wish that never did happened that really made me made but i`m trying so had to get over it i`m geting some help with my family it`s mostly about ex-boyfriend stuff. I dont know to feel sad or mad, but anyways there has been alot of changes in my life were my really good friends leave me to be with others at the point were i need them the most also right naw my grades are average but i need 'A'`s to be in the dance team that i am i only need till april to try out but the choch said good luck!! So far i only skiped one period science but i`m going to make that up soon!! I dont know if i`m going to make some changes in my life right naw i hope i do there`s alot of things coming up in my life i hope there really good happy things Mr.enns thats all for naw if some one else is reading this 'HI''.

maira said...

i think i have change because my perants have tought me that there wil be absticles in life that i will need to confront. and so far that is true but i think that back in 8th grade i had laost my identity i didn't no who i was no more but with the few freinds that i have in your class iv'e learned alot fromthem and i still have alote more to learn from them.
and im glade that im not the same person that i was last year.if you guys read this thqnk you so much (carolina,bernardo,ericka,steve thank you so much

Unknown said...

there are alot of change of changes in my life. we i go to the store i see people from all over.some times there are good changes and sometimes bad. culture is where people are from. it is also the holidays they celebrate. people from around the world dont celebrate the same holidays that people from around the world do like us. like people from mexico celelabrate el dia de los ninos and peole from the united sates dont.

xiomara rocks! said...

Will this year I'm going to try harder at school, get to all my classes at time, and do my homework two days before. This year I want ot join as many programs as I can, so I can get a scholarship and so I don't have to pay for my college. I also do better at my classes, I'm more quite, but not too quite. I have been turning in my homework.

Luis G said...

The changes that im going through life is that im not skipping my classes and i pay attention in some of my classes and i also dont talk back to teachers yet i also do some of my homework.

Lilmama said...

i think its really good about how u talk about your baby because it makes me think about how y baby boy its going to change a lot

hoa said...

the things that change my life right now is this year I'll will try to get an "A" in all of my class. I volunteer in church i think kind of fun because I'll meet a lot of people and it really fun to hang. i teach some kids in that church, it's really fun to hang out with them but sometime i got headache because they so annoy.this year i don't have a lot of homework like last year, i spend a lot time to play games and computer. i take Spanish 1-2 and it's really cool.